All Alone and Lonely (Child 20)

I’ve been singing this ballad for some years, albeit in a different version – that collected from Mrs. Bigney of Pictou, Nova Scotia - for most of them. Over the years I made minor revisions and added extra verses, although the Pictou text remains the foundation for what I sing now. Verse 2 belongs to that text - although I tweaked it to make it rhyme – and the “owl in the wood” came from there, too. The penances in v14, however, are from Peter Cole, recorded in Pennsylvania U.S.A. in 1929, while the attempts to clean knife and hands were in a version sung by Mrs. Hollingsworth of Thaxted, England in 1921. Mrs. Hollingsworth had the song collected from her on two occasions separated by ten years, and it’s interesting to note that her tune varied significantly between the two.

A couple of years ago I came across a version of the ballad printed in The Living Tradition magazine that had a Mixolydian melody I rather liked and an interesting five-beat bar on the third line of the verse, although the lyrics were brief and sketchy. So Mrs. Woodbury’s tune (notated by Cecil Sharp) became the vehicle for the set of words I’d already put together over the years. Calling it All Alone and Lonely – which is far less judgemental than Child’s preferred Cruel Mother and begins to suggest the desperation of the single mother in an age when such a situation carried a far greater stigma than today (read your Tess of the D’Urbervilles) – was Chris Coe’s suggestion. The singers who sang the ballad in tradition more commonly called it The Greenwood Side or similar.

1. There was a lady lived in York
All alone and lonely
She fell in love with her father’s clerk
Down by the greenwood side
2. She loved him well, she loved him long
She grew with child as the year drew on
3. She leaned her back against an oak
First it bowed and then it broke
4. She leaned her back against a thorn
And there her two bonny babes were born
5. She took a penknife, long and sharp
She pierced it through their tender hearts
6. She dug a hole, both wide and deep
She threw them in and bid them sleep
7.She wiped the knife all on the grass
The more she wiped, the blood ran fast
8. She washed her hands all in the spring
Thought to return a maid again

9. But as she returned to her father’s hall
She spied two babes a playing at the ball

10. Oh babes, oh babes, if you were mine
I’d dress you up in the silk so fine
11. Oh mother dear, we once were thine
But you didn’t dress us in the silk so fine
12. For you took a penknife long and sharp
You pierced it through our tender hearts

13. Oh babes, oh babes, what must I do
For this cruel deed I have done to you

14. It’s seven years to wash and wring
Seven years to card and spin
15. Seven years as an owl in the wood
Seven years as a fish in the flood
16. And seven years to toll the bell
Seven years in the flames of Hell

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